The show's title, directly translated to "if you're not serious, then don't bother me," reflects the direct and to-the-point attitude that has made the program so popular since it first debuted in early He was relatively unknown when the show first aired but has now become a household name. Be careful not to confuse this show with If You Are The One , which is a film directed by Feng Xiaogang that shares the TV show's title in Chinese , but is not actually related to the show in any way. Single men appear one by one on stage before a group of 24 women, each standing behind a podium with a light on it. More or less immediately, the man picks one of them in secret that appeals to him.
What I learned from being on a Chinese TV dating show
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At the beginning of last November, a Chinese teacher and colleague at my school sent me a message on WeChat the Chinese near-equivalent of WhatsApp asking if I was looking for a girlfriend in China. There followed an application and an interview for a TV show. Little did I know what I was letting myself in for. It's six weeks later. I'm surrounded by scaffolding, cables and stage machinery, dimly illuminated by fluorescent lighting. Gradually, it all started to sink in. Not many Westerners can say they've been on a Chinese TV show.
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For a small but increasingly high-profile number of young women in modern-day China, true love is all about the numbers. A potential suitor may have a good sense of humor and reasonable good looks, but what they say really matters is if he owns an apartment and how many square feet it is. A sizable bank account is also a must, and, some say, so is a luxury car. At least, that's the way things look if you watch Chinese television these days.
By Kaileen Gaul For Mailonline. On a typical American dating show, the Bachelorette will act impressed by her suitor though she is clearly out of his league. She will at least pretend be nice to a man even if his job title is simply 'hipster. Women on Chinese dating shows are far more critical. They will detail all the ways in which a man is not worthy of their love for the whole country to watch on the China's most popular dating show.