He takes you out on dates. Two people having sex and engaging in emotional intimacy on a consistent basis? Probably one of a few reasons. While our parents were following a more linear trajectory toward commitment, our generation was not told how to navigate the increasingly greater gap between school and marriage. So, maybe his job is in flux. But I do know men think long and hard about their ability to commit before they enter into commitments.
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Photo Credit: The Kitcheners. Ah, dating. It can be so fun, so exciting, so romantic—and yet so utterly confusing. The biggest issue: It was moving too fast for him. He preferred to be alone.
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You heard him, but you thought maybe you could join along for the ride, drive freely with no worry of the crash. And maybe in the beginning you fooled yourself into thinking so. That you were more laid back and unattached than that. That a relationship was too traditional for you too, that you were just like him and you wanted the same things. In the beginning you thought, I kinda like this no attachment thing.
You click together like no one ever has. You find yourself growing close to him, and you start to entertain the idea of getting serious with him. That is, until you receive that text: Those words cut deeply, in the most unexpected ways.